Takeaway: Safe and pleasurable anal play is all about following a few key rules. Anal sex can be a little frightening for straight guys - at least, at first. That doesn't mean they aren't interested, though. Here we'll take a look at some of the things that might concern a hetero guy who wants to try anal play - and provides some tips on how to have the best, most mind-blowing orgasm you can ever have. But first, I want to add a note that this is an article for straight men, by a straight man.
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Women who used sex toys were once deemed as lonely or sexually deviant, but nowadays the use of such products by women is socially acceptable. The stigma for men who show an interest, however, has not changed. Even amongst women who own cupboards full of sex toys, I have spoken to those who say they would be horrified if they found out their partner was using a sex toy for their own pleasure. While a woman could happily mention she uses a vibrator to her friends, a man who mentions that he uses a sex toy to his mates is more likely to be ridiculed rather than asked for a product recommendation. Despite the ongoing stigma, male sex toy sales have risen by 1, per cent in the past 10 years. In FHM conducted an online male sex toy debate of 5, men to find out their views about buying male sex toys and found:. So why do so many see the use of sex toys by women as empowering, but ridicule men who make the same choice?
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Plus, past research has found people who use sex toys also have better sexual functioning i. According to some sex therapists , the fear of being replaced by vibrators and dildos is apparently a common concern among their male clientele. To get a better sense of how couples are choosing to incorporate sex toys into their relationships, I tapped dating app OkCupid to ask how their users feel about the use of sex toys during partnered sex in general. Using sex toys with my partner has been amazing! There are so many options out there from vibrators to cock rings to other fun toys like handcuffs and feathers.